It used to be that when one started earning his own income, he was expected to leave the house of his parents and stand on his own two feet. These days, it is not uncommon to encounter an adult with a full time job still living with his parents. The question that is in the parents’ mind is whether or not they should charge their children rent.
On the one hand, the parents want only the best for their children. If they can provide for their children’s comfort, then why wouldn’t they do so? On the other hand, parents also want their children to learn to be independent. If they continue pampering them and providing for their basic needs even as adults, then the children may never learn to become independent.
The answer is short and sweet: if the adult children have a job and are able to sustain a comfortable lifestyle because they do not have to pay rent and other utilities, then parents definitely have to charge them rent. This applies to situations wherein children live in the same house as their parents do, as well as to situations wherein children live in a property that the parents own.
Some may see the act as callous, but it is more of a matter of teaching the individual how to be responsible. If he or she can afford a car, go out every night, take trips, and so on, then he or she should also be able to afford rent and other basic expenses that every other person has to deal with on a daily basis.